Lilly6

You will never find your safety, and you will never find protection by trying to control circumstances. The only place you will ever find it will be by closing your vibrational gap, and those who do will always be safe.

San Rafael, CA 2/12/06

GUEST: It’s very hard for me to be trusting with my son, ‘cause there’s been a lot of evidence to the contrary. ABRAHAM: That evidence came from mistrust, which came from something else. As you don’t trust, he responds to that, then you catch him and the consequences are so uncomfortable that he learns greater deception. And as he learns greater deception, then you don’t trust him all the more, which means he gets even more deceptive…because you will never ever, no matter how hard you try — squelch his desire, that comes forth from within, to be independent ...

Source knows your worthiness when you complain that you’re not smart, you feel the discord. Source knows your value when you think you are insignificant, you feel the discord. Source knows your brilliance when you think you’re not smart, you feel the discord. In other words, you, if you will pay attention to the way you feel, can get a reading in every single moment about how well you are doing with your thought in vibrational relationship to how Source is doing in thinking about you, in recognizing who you are no, it’s even more than that in BEING that nonphysical part of you ...

The thing that is the most humorous to your sister and to all of US relative to this is that you’re all seeing the worst possible thing that could happen to anyone as what you call, ‘death,’ which is an immediate, inevitable, delicious-beyond-description, closing of one’s gap.

In other words, in the what you call ‘death’ experience there is the withdrawal of your attention from those things we are trying to get you to not pay attention to? in other words, talk about deactivation of resistance, that’s what your death experience will do for you ...

“Close your gap between where you are now and where you want to be, by stating daily, ‘I’m free to do what pleases me, and I’m going to do what pleases me today, and a couple of things that I have to do’. We would never do anything out of obligation or responsibility.”

Abraham-Hicks Seminar Sacramento, CA July 26, 2006

Friends, you never get it done. We never get it done. You, we never get it done. It can never be done. If it could ever be done, we would not be eternal. It cannot be done — if we could ever get it done, we would be done, we would be dead. There is not that kind of dead. There is not dead done dead done dead done, there is not (audience laughter) — there is only eternal life experience.

So since we cannot get it done, why are we making some place that we think we want to be such an important goalpost that it makes us feel inadequate, insignificant, insecure about where we be? In other words, where you be is so fantastic — we want you to fall in love with where you are ...

No one who is looking at life through the eyes of Source can experience the absence of something that they want, because when you are looking at anything through the eyes of Source you are a vibrational match to everything you want. Because the eyes of Source are fixated on the vibrational escrow that you have put there, you see.

So the relationship you are looking for is THIS ONE, this closing of the gap. Nothing is more important than I feel good. Today, no matter where I am going, no matter what I am doing, it is my dominant intent to look for that which I am wanting to see ...

We want you to focus upon what you want in alignment with deliberate thought. Close the gap with where you are. No need to hold people in a way for them to make you feel better. That’s the pain of relationships. That is giving the other the power. If they did give you what you wanted you would feel suffocated. A relationship becomes magnificent when it is with you. Practice bringing yourself up the emotional scale. You don’t ever have to leave your relationship behind. If you could find reaching thoughts that feel better that give you relief ...