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If someone you don’t know called you on the telephone and said “Hello, I don’t know you but I was just calling to say I will never call you again.” You would say “Alrighty then” and hang up and not feel anything. But if someone really important to you said “I will never call you again”, you would feel strong negative emotion because this thought is going in opposition to what you are wanting. Let’s say that someone that you care about is leaving you or is mad at you, and when you think about it you feel depressed and then notice that almost as soon as you get depressed you get mad in return. That’s Source calling you and you’ve already started your trek up the emotional scale.

If you stay there in that anger and you think of all of the injustices that have happened and you are using this as your excuse to hold you apart from who you really are. You might say that you have no control in this and something that I want to happen is not happening in the way I want it to happen and I have no control, which would move you from anger to powerlessness. The reason that you feel so bad is not because this person is leaving. It’s because what you think about this person leaving has got you separated from who you really are.

So let’s say that you’re in that anger and they’re really going and you can really see that there isn’t anything you can really do about it. And then you focus on something that doesn’t have anything to do with it, like your job or another person, and you feel an absence of that negative emotion. Now they’re still leaving, but you’re not feeling it right now, which means you’re not pushing against the flow of your own well being; you’re not using them and what they seem to be doing to cut yourself off from your own Source energy. So let’s say that you focus on other aspects of your life until you feel a little better and then you start remembering some of the good times that you had with this person, and you find yourself laughing and enjoying the memory of some of these good times. Now, not only are you not going against the flow, you’re going with the flow relative to something you really want. Now you’re focused on the subject of this relationship and you’re no longer pushing against it.

As you begin to feel a little better and keep on insisting on focusing on thoughts that feel better, in many cases, this relationship isn’t the relationship that you want any more because you have focused beyond it. Or, it may turn around and come back to you because you became a vibrational match to it.